They tell us not to compare because the comparisons will eat us alive. We will literally drive ourselves crazy if we keep comparing. But, how can we ever achieve better things for ourselves if we don't compare? When we go to buy a new car... we compare the specs and the price; we want the best deal. And absolutely, without a doubt in my mind, the same goes for a relationship. I have spent a lot of time avoiding comparing my last relationship with my current relationship, but anymore, it's a hard thing to do. True, I was not the one that deciding on the ending of my first relationship, but to me that is not the point. Okay, in car talk: It's like when you want the car of your dreams and it gets you by for a few years with troubles here and there, but then quits running on you one day. You are then left with no choice but to look for a new car. Except this time, you are looking for different specs, forget the price, unlike your last choice. Sometimes you just have to learn an
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